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Hot phone number get experience lavalife by phone number has a category to phone numbers for a list of local area code to. It is interesting to suppose that women in AM could seduce someone using only a keyboard. I guarantee that 'many images and few words' is the form of female expression. Using the keyboard, they send data not always correct data about their age, etc. In short, whether they are seduced through 'keyboard' or they make simple contact; they open their Gallery 18 and show their real power of seduction Ricardo, 46 years old, married for 23 years at the time of my research, engineer.

I suspect that Ricardo used to like to cast these provocations precisely to "feel alive" because of his criticism. I imply that the feeling revealed in this phrase is related to the idea of risk and to the notion of masculinity which guide these men. Each one of his provocations made him feel the risk of the interruption of our relation. We even had some disagreements which led to periods of silence in our mailing exchanges.

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To some extent, all of them were under some kind of risk: being discovered, falling in love, breaking stable relationships that gave them security. However, many were betting on their ability to manage and control those risks. When they could not do so, they were pleased with the emotions associated to "risk-adventure" Spink, :. By using the term risk-adventure we are referring, only partially, to new forms of adventure and to new uses of old form of vertigo games.

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We chose the composed term risk-adventure in order to emphasize an important shift of modern meaning of risk that recover adventure as a positive dimension of risk management Spink, It is important to address, even if only tangentially, the relation between the intensified digital media uses, masculinities, conjugalities and risk management. The latter, to men, is strongly associated to the ways they make use of Internet resources.

Managing risks in this context is related to the control of information, through monitoring its movement caution with passwords to prevent access to their devices and profiles ; which also requires caution with identity, so the adoption of nick names and the relative parsimony in the disclosure of personal photos; caution on what is revealed and how to do it, for example, paying attention to their writing in order to avoid misunderstandings; regulating the amount of personal data disclosed and shared, accumulating and systematizing information about other people in order to ensure a more comfortable movement among available communication website tools, emails, MSN messenger, still active at the time the research was made, Skype and also text messaging in that case, in order to avoid confusing the women who they are talking to, mixing up their nick names or stories told, among others.

As risk managers, these men end up expressing on the experiences they narrate basic elements of late modernity theorized by Ulrich Beck with the concept of "risk society". According to Beck, the risk society is sustained by the triad globalization, individualization and reflexivity. The first brings as sine qua non condition the development of electronic media; individualization is associated to the untraditionalization of institutions like family, for instance; the reflectivity would be the "susceptibility to the chronic revision of the most part of the aspects of social activity and relations with nature, under the light of new information" Beck cited Spink One of the evident marks of late modernity associated with other aspects pointed by Beck is perhaps the displacements related to gender relations field.

My interlocutors show that in several ways. Somehow, managing, controlling, monitoring, or having the feeling that they do so give them a feeling of control and autonomy which links them to traditional models of masculinity in an universe in which these powers are diluted there are more men than women seeking extramarital adventures; they are men over 40, living in a society which appreciate youth and in which the active and insertive sex is a symbol of masculinity and virility; these men show some difficulties to deal with female sexual autonomy as well as entrenched values of masculinity, such as the non demonstration of their emotions or the desire to do so.

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It is not about adhering to the "victimizing" speech of masculinity which punctuated the gender studies in this field Oliveira, , but to be provoked by the anguishes these men express in their writing where it is possible to verify the unwillingness or the lack of reflection to change the rules and conventions which guide and legitimate asymmetric gender relations:. There are also many disappointments, not only with the service offered by the website, but also with the types of women who they have encountered when connecting to the platforms.

They seem "too hussy", "troubled", "coming from unhappy relationships", "willing" to go straight to wanting to get to the good stuff right away, thus, destabilizing the gender expectations that some of these men have. On the other hand, the feeling that life is short and that they are not "George Clooney, Eike Batista or Mark Zuckerberg" makes them believe that the most exciting women present in restrict cheating market are out of reach which settles a great frustration feeling and confronting them with their fear of being refuted and deprecated because of their age, physical type and socioeconomic condition.

With no tactical resources to manage the imponderable, many of my interlocutors fell in love with women they met in AM. The refusal that comes from the Internet is no less painful and can be measured. Some of those men soon realized that "enjoying an affair" was not an easy task as the website's advertising used to promise. Enjoy an affair, as the second part of AM's slogan authorizes "Life is short, enjoy an affair" , or trying to enjoy it put forth profound moral dramas which included also questionings about gender relations, social class and age. I spoke to men over 40 years old that did not have emotional connections with the Internet and its social resources during their youth.

Although they could easily manage the tools for communication in digital media they were not sure if they managed the somewhat fluid sociability codes operating in many of these environments. Neither they were sure that their strategies to deal with marriage were the best they could employ.

Even so, many of them seemed to realize that, yes, "life is short", but there are many ways to improve their experiences, so they can have the impression of expanding time. Digital media could help them to do so. This is the way it happened with Geraldo who worked in the s in Kuwait where he lived for 12 years. Culturally isolated, he found that the UOL chatrooms could find company and excitement for the boredom of night shifts. Currently, through AM, he intends to 'raise flight' in sex:. When I was still in Kuwait, we had some relationship problems in marriage, and I ended up getting involved with someone on the Internet.

This time it got so serious that I used to call her almost every day, sometimes at the cost of an international call. I said I was working after hours, just to get out and call her. These conversations lasted for months until I came to Brazil for vacations. But then I gave up again. I knew that if I met her, my marriage would run a serious risk and I lacked the courage to do so.

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I think that this situation contributed to fortify our friendship and trust Geraldo, 57 years old, 32 years of marriage at the time of this research, systems analyst. Talking about their domestic and marital lives was a taboo. In general they were reluctant in talking about this subject. Thus, data about their wives and their family lives were collected from short mentions in which the woman, with rare exceptions, was recognized as a companion, good mother and, in some occasions, a successful professional.

Therefore, the problem was not with the wives but with marriage as an institution that stains the hegemonic and contemporary values about masculinity, youth and purchasing power. Being mature men devaluated them in the affects' market which could be compensated with good conversation and some erudition but it was not always enough to ensure they would seduce someone. Jorge, 62, was one of the oldest men with whom I exchanged messages. He showed me an excerpt from an email he received from one of the women he met on the website and in person. He described her as.

A clever woman with a very clear and objective purpose regarding our relationship. Our "talk" was always at a high level, with no bad language or explicit sexual intentions, and it evolved until our first meeting which happened last week. I want you to know that I enjoyed very much meeting you However, as you said: "you prefer a hurtful truth than a lie" I'm sorry.

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And yes, I lied when I said it was the place which didn't allow us to "kiss", but actually, I didn't feel like doing so. Paul, 54 21 , university professor, somewhat overweight, unlike Jorge, showed me a list of his achievements, that Ricardo, with whom I exchanged many of my views about my other "guineas pigs" 22 , did not believe in: "You know that male lies are fantastic, right? Adilson could also be included among my favorites with his captivating writing, great stories and torrid feelings and romances.

I met him personally. I thought about Ricardo at once, who wisely preferred we kept being good in keyboard. I do not doubt Adilson's adventures who was also surprised with our silence during our meeting. To me, he was one among those who best expressed the search for feeling alive now that life seemed so stable:. Deep inside I miss humor, art and culture in my relationship.